Justin's Birthday is March 18th. Good ol day after St. Patty's day. This year he decided he wanted to go to Traxx (a very fast go-cart race track) and then after he wanted to go bowling. So about a week before his birthday I sent out a text message to about 25 people who we are friends with. Or I guess we thought we were friends with. After a few days I realized.. hmmm.. Only four people responded to the text message. Now, first off, I don't expect eveyone to drop what they are doing and attend Justin's birthday, but what I do expect is a response, especially when I specifically said "I hope you can come, let me know if you can make it so that I can reserve bowling lanes". I don't think it is much to ask to expect people who say they are "friends" to reply, even with a "sorry we have plans already".
So after not getting responses from about 20 people, I then sent out a message on facebook. This message went out to 26 people. ONE person responded.
Since I normally try to stay as positive as possible and NEVER air dirty laundry on my blog or facebook, this is out of character for me to be upset about, but what it comes down to is, I AM DONE! I am so sick of everyone pretending to be our friends and then they can't even respond and let me know "hey, can't make it". Is that really so much to ask? If I had a dollar for everyone who said "I will help you with your house" and yet, 10 months later, still haven't even tried to come help. Oh man. But anyways.
All in all, Justin did have a great time on his birthday. He had 5 people show up at Traxx to race with him ( I was a spectator). And then for bowling a few more people showed up and he had a great time. He is a very easy going person and enjoyed every minute of his birthday.
Happy Birthday Hubby of mine : )